The holidays are a time of joy, connection, and sometimes, a whole lot of mistletoe pressure. For those who are single, this season can feel bittersweet. Here’s how to not just survive the holidays as a single person but thrive, with tips, advice, and a bit of humor to keep things merry and bright.

Whether it’s your most loved or most hated day of the year, Valentine’s Day is almost upon us. And rather than waiting for someone else to make you feel good this year, why not take matters into your own hands and show yourself some love?

Often when I talk to my clients about feelings of worthlessness we start with a little bit of self-exploration. We start with noticing. Start to notice when these feelings come up for you. Is there a particular time of day, a specific person who brings it out, a phrase you hear? Just start to notice. Usually it's tied to something or someone but it may take a while to figure out what or who that is.